Lauren has been my attorney for the past 3 years and I could not be more pleased with how she (and the rest of her team) handled my case from beginning to end. Throughout this terribly trying experience (which included multiple hearings for divorce, custody, and child support disputes) my confidence in Lauren has never faltered and I was able to find comfort in the fact that she always had my and my daughter’s interests in mind. I was well informed, well prepared, and had clear expectations throughout the entire process, and I was never disappointed or surprised in court. I have already personally recommended her to one other person (who has retained her) and will do so to anyone who finds themselves in this difficult situation.
Step Into the Mediation Room with Confidence
resolve your divorce Sensibly
WITHOUT GETTING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF
Divorce Mediation Coaching & Consulting
You know you want to resolve your divorce with as little damage to yourself, your family, and your bank account as possible.
You’ve heard divorce mediation may be the way to go. But you wonder whether it will work for you because your spouse can be difficult and your situation has some challenges.
You’re about to embark on a legal process you don’t know much about and make high-stakes decisions on critical issues that will affect your future for years to come.
All of this is expected of you at a time when intense emotions may be making it challenging to see your situation objectively or stay at the negotiating table.
And you don’t know what’s reasonable to ask for in terms of a settlement.
You want to get this right. But you’re not sure how or where to start.
That’s okay. You’re not supposed to know how to do that already.
With more than 17 years of experience as a Southern California divorce attorney and coach, I do. And I can teach you how to handle divorce mediation like a pro.
Don’t waste time, money, and effort or jeopardize your future going into mediation unprepared. Get the best of both worlds in one place: The benefit of smart legal advice and the empathetic, high-touch experience of working with a seasoned divorce coach.
Split sensibly.
""If you fail to prepare, you're preparing to fail.""
Imagine . . .
You understand and can navigate the mediation process.
You know what you’ll be asking for as a resolution.
You know you won’t get screwed over.
You have a plan for obtaining the results most important to you.
You can advocate for yourself and negotiate the issues in dispute.
You know what to do when emotions run high and conflict ramps up.
I will help you prepare, plan for, and confidently navigate and engage in, the divorce mediation process through individualized support and skill building.
The 4 Keys to Success We'll Work On:

The Mediation Process & What to Expect

Deciding What You Want & Developing Settlement Proposals

Negotiating & Advocating for Yourself in the Mediation Room

Creating a Protocol for When Emotions Run High & Conflict Happens
If you’re looking for a consulting divorce attorney and coach that can help you successfully navigate divorce mediation, look no further than
Lauren Fair.
With a background as a highly experienced divorce attorney, certified divorce coach, and trained mediator, I am passionate about helping women learn to successfully engage in divorce mediation.
After 15 years in the courtroom, I empower women to stay out of it whenever reasonably possible.
Instead, I show clients how they can divorce in a way that is designed to minimize legal fees, maintain more control over the outcome, maximize the potential for their post-divorce life, and resolve the process more quickly and efficiently.
You do not have to have a long, drawn-out, expensive, and ugly divorce process. I can show you how you can do better for yourself and your family.
What My Clients Are Saying
Lauren has been my attorney for the past 3 years and I could not be more pleased with how she and her team handled my case from beginning to end.
Peter Hudack
Lauren Fair has been an amazing lawyer. She is attentive, knowledgeable, compassionate, hard working, and an amazing advocate to have on my side.
Lauren Fair has been an amazing lawyer. She is attentive, knowledgeable, compassionate, hard working, and an amazing advocate to have on my side. I feel lucky to have her through this difficult time and trust in her judgment completely. Her expertise and attention to detail is astonishing. I would recommend Lauren to anyone who needs a supportive and strong lawyer on their side!
Robynn Cavaliere
Elena went above and beyond, offering not just legal expertise but also emotional support throughout the process.
I am incredibly thankful for the remarkable legal support provided by my family law attorney. Winning my child custody case felt like an uphill battle, but their strategic approach, legal acumen, and genuine concern for my family’s well-being made all the difference. Elena went above and beyond, offering not just legal expertise but also emotional support throughout the process. If you are in search of a dedicated
and skilled family law advocate, look no further.
George Sims
The moment I went into consultation with Lauren I felt at ease and relieved that finally someone is willing to listen and understand.
This review is long overdue. I am very thankful to Lauren Fair. I was her client back in 2012. I was having a difficult time with my daughter’s father but the moment I went into consultation with her I felt at ease and relieved that finally someone is willing to listen and understand. I didn’t have much money, I even lost my apartment in order to retain her services. My child and I were legit homeless. She is compassionate and willing to go out and above for her client. I am truly grateful. She got it done in one go. No headache or mess for me. I had a smooth experience. Thank you Lauren.
Grace Aula
Divorce is difficult as it is so having a great lawyer helping you makes a big difference.
I felt very much at ease when approaching Lauren Fair Cadora to help me with my divorce. She explained things so I could understand. I was able to contact her with any questions or concerns at any time. Divorce is difficult as it is so having a great lawyer helping you makes a big difference.
Patti Koch
Elena focused on a resolution, which made me trust her even more.
Elena remained balanced, reflective and strategic throughout the entire process. Without Elena’s insight and expert knowledge of the law, the case could have easily resulted in ongoing conflict and expensive litigation. Elena focused on a resolution, which made me trust her even more.
Samantha served as the paralegal on my case. She was highly responsive and with an incredible attention to detail.
Family law can become high conflict very quickly, Working with an ethical attorney and paralegal focused on the well being of their client and client’s child, rather than ongoing and unnecessary litigation is invaluable.
Jamie
Their dedication to my case was evident in their tireless efforts, attention to detail, and strategic approach.
I am beyond grateful for the exceptional legal support provided by my family law attorney, Elena. From the outset, they demonstrated a deep understanding of the intricacies involved in child custody cases. Their dedication to my case was evident in their tireless efforts, attention to detail, and strategic approach. Not only did they secure a favorable outcome, but they also ensured that my concerns and priorities were at the forefront throughout the process. If you are in need of a family law lawyer who combines expertise with genuine empathy, I highly recommend Elena’s services. My family and I are now looking forward to a brighter future, thanks to their outstanding representation.
Andrea Brown
I worked with Lauren Fair and her staff for over a year and a half. The entire time they were responsive, professional, honest and very informative.
I worked with Lauren Fair and her staff for over a year and a half. The entire time they were responsive, professional, honest and very informative. Lauren walked me through the entire process step by step. When a court date or decision needed to be made. She was honest and prepared me for all the scenarios. Her knowledge and commitment to her work shows. I always received timely responses from her and all staff members. I can not thank them enough for all they did for me. I am now divorced and was granted an out of state move away. I highly recommend Lauren Fair. She truly cares about her clients and their best interest.
Desiree P.
Let's Talk
I understand that figuring out your next steps in your divorce can be overwhelming and stressful.
The decisions you make early on in the divorce process can seriously impact how long your divorce takes, how much it costs, and how much control you have over the outcome.
The first step is to request a consultation. I can help you take it from there.